Training.

 I have not posted in awhile. My updates, still training for the PCT every morning up at 5 and I don't seem to get out until 605 and normally have about 15 lbs on my back for a 6 to 11 mile hike depending on what app you use ( google maps, timeline is more generous) Google fit, is less generous with the mileage. I tried out the nemo tensor cf pad I got laying on it and seeing what side goes up. Pretty good with the trekking poles they have some serious use on them. Backpack I feel I am dialing in. Tightened the sholder straps and hip belt. Was reluctant to add the Nemo, cause I think it makes me look more homeless, but that is part of the deal. I am wearing the free Nike shirt that was given to me because its dry fit and the same shorts (they suck, they retain too much sweat) and the merlino wool underwear, pretty good, actually like how they support my legs. I for the life of me could not remember the place that I ordered a merlino jacket from paying with Etherium. I checked all the sites, Reddit, Instagram and finally found it in google emails I just got an email from him with a tracking number. Now waiting for Borah gear. I cleaned out an old peanut butter jar and made refried beans, it was good yesterday but today it smelled like it went bad. So I am starting to experiment with cold soaking food. 

I need to get for the tarp guy lines and stakes, learn how to tie some knots and set it up.  After I will start by sleeping outdoors, perhaps some thru the winter just to figure out how to tarp correcty.

Bakersfield - Not my cup of Tea

 I drove 540 miles yesterday.  

The grandkids were down for a visit, and after a week of swimming, staying up late and being bored it was time to take them down to Bakersfield to be picked up by Grandpa Richard. 

Not having kids around for years (13,12,9,9) it really was tiring, I slept in a tent in the backyard, watched them swim, swam with them, took them to a park, heard them fight and took them to the store / Mcdonalds. 

I checked into renting a car but due to the pandemic, most cars were rented. I checked on Turo (app that allows people to rent out their car) and could never find a car that sat 6 people, and didn't cap the miles at around 200 to 300 miles. Most would wham you for .30 cents a mile over 300. A rental would be around $100 and add $60 plus whatever else you would have to pay. 

So in the civic we went at 10am, I had to ask my son in law (who I think dreamed up this vacation for his kids) for his fathers phone number when he was here dropping the kids off and when he went back to Washington, during the week the kids were here. 

Not quite sure how we were going to make the exchange happen. Magic?  Finally my daughter responds and I formulate a text. I suggested meeting at a restaurant. Gave a time (4 hours) and some room for stops and traffic.

His drive was 2 hours from Lancaster over the grapevine. As we were driving minor fighting between the twins ensued, /quelled by Angie and RJ. RJ in the front seat was busy with his phone as most 12 years olds tend to be these days. 

I was going to stop in Fresno for something to eat as it was 12, but decided to see if the kids would chime in with needing to go to the bathroom or hunger. Just past the main part of Fresno someone said they were hungry. Needing gas, I pulled off at a gas station / food mart. While pumping gas, a strange man pulls up and flashes a gold watch (I could not tell what it was) and asks for help. Sorry dude, no money (not really sorry, just want him gone). 

We go in, the kids get slushies, takkis, beef jerky, I get a chicken salad sandwich (yuck). Landon hits the bathroom and we are off. 

There is allot of construction going on and we are down to two lanes when we reach Bakersfield. A semi truck stalls in the left lane congesting traffic. We are 2 exits away from Brundage lane. Grandpa Richard calls Angie and she tells him we are close.  I get off on Brundage lane locate the restaurant on the left side and pull into the parking lot, which is pretty full. Grandpa Richard has parking on the street across from the restaurant. He gets out waves and then pulls his truck behind the civic. When we had gotten out, it was so hot and humid in Bakersfield, about 10 times worse than here. The kids pull out their luggage and it gets stowed in the truck bed. Hugs around and they are gone. I have to pee and need coffee, so I plug in Starbucks and I am directed to Ming road (sounds familiar). It is, we have been here before from some long ago soccer tourney and I remember. The Starbucks is in the mall. People just walk right in front of the car when I am driving to find a parking spot. The vibe in this town is one of irritated hot people. Starbucks is crowded and I walk the mall to find the bathroom. The mall is poorly air conditioned and people mill about blocking my passage further angering me. After, I go back to Starbucks wait in line, order a cheese sandwich and Large Flat white. 

Jumping back in, I press go home on Garman, and proceed home. I try to maintain 74 miles per hour, I am trying to get into a flow, but everyone is zipping in and out of traffic and suddenly smashing their breaks and then going again. I constantly have to disengage cruise control and flow does not come. Somewhere before Madera, a loud balloon pop shatters the monotony. I think someone shot at me, no windows were blown out, blood is not leaking out of me. I use the mirrors to scan the car while driving but can find no holes. The wheels on the car go round and round and no lights are on in the car.  Freaked, I continue to drive for eternity and drain the car down to 3 fuel bars when I finally park in my garage. I look the car over top to bottom and cannot find anything. 

The 8 hours of driving have left my left knee sore, due to the angle of the sitting. 

I start wondering about all the driving everyone else has had to do, Daughter and Son in Law 700 here 700 back , rinse and repeat to pickup the kids (1400) me 540 miles, Grandpa Rich 184 miles, Grandma Christina 772

2936 total miles, Elk Grove to New York NY is 2829. Basically a trip across America. 

I poised the question of all this driving to my dear wife, she said, oh the twins are not vaccinated , I counter with, but they are going to Disneyland amongst the hoards how different will that be from a plane ride?

Daddy Issues

My dad was sick for a long time. He had Parkinsons, it was diagnosed after retirement. He did not shake or have the normal signs of it. According to him, he had a different gait, shoulders hurt and he started hallucinating.

I realized that I had the most time with him while he was in the nursing home. But I wander, back to the subject. 

He started writing little stories about people in his past, people who made it to the "cameos" were people who paid attention to him. 

He paid little attention to his grand kids but again I wander. 

I remember asking him about his brother and why there was no story about his brother, a painful memory he did write about. 

Most importantly on one of the stories he was reluctant to release, afraid that the person or their relatives would be alive and somehow read the piece of paper existing in California, most are probably in New York or dead or in a home. 

What struck me as odd was here is a man who had no problem not having any relationship with his grandkids, great grandkids and minimal relations with his kids, but was afraid of hurting the feelings of some distant relative.

I was going to come to some great point but it escaped me utterly.

My parents divorced after 25 years of marriage, my dad had no real explanation as to why they divorced. He did hook up with one of my class mates from elementary school. 

My guess is, he became bored with his life, and was searching for something to make him feel alive. I cannot speak for my mom, was she happy with this life? 

My dad at one point wanted to move to Illinois. My mom vetoed this. Perhaps my dad was testing the waters, making his case / story as people do. Finally the affair, to perhaps force the issue, maybe other things were done to solidify his case .

Eventually my case mate did the right thing and dumped my dad. Did he reach out and try to connect with his kids, see how they were doing and help them out? Not really. He helped me once in putting a sprinkler system in my first house and gave me $5000 for a down payment. Was there a sparkle in his eye when he saw his grand kids, did he run over to pick them up and hug them? That just wasn't my dad. 

He traveled to the Czech republic to teach, and down to Honduras (no reason given). I realize now that these trips had to do with him trying to find a spouse. There might have been more trips, but communication was normally non-existent.

I do remember him onetime saying he had achieved a level of success that he felt his children would never reach (I was going to the community college he taught at and was outside his office). 

I guess he was measuring himself by the American capitalist standard of material wealth and employment status. 

To me now at my age, it reeks of buffoonery, how the hell would you know what you children will become, who bets against them, who says your measures are right or valid?

I realize now as I struggled thru life, the thing I needed most from my dad wasn't money, or cars or material things, yes they are great and can make life easier. What I needed the most was guidance a counselor or to keep it Italian , a consigliere. 

It could have been for the simplist things in life. Dad how do I muddle thru? Dad when do I say enough is enough? Wait actually those are deep, how about Dad did you feel fuzzy headed in your 30's, did the grind of life and the feeling that the same thing is happening just with different faces? 

I like to take my experiences and view them as things I can grow from and to make sure I don't make the same mistakes.

 

 

 7/11/2021

Its been hot, 105 friday 110 Saturday and 107 ish today. I got up at 5 made coffee did my stretches and got my 15 lb back pack and put on my old dress shirt that is 60 cotton 40 poly new hiking shirt and buff, trekking polls, gum to get that coffee funk taste out of my mouth and out the front. 

My goal is to get that old soccer back pack to 20lbs to replicate a frameless pack. Of course the sweat concentrates in the small of my back and since its so hot, my shirt gets soaked and my tidy whites. 

Here is the fox I saw from 2 days ago, I saw her again today. It just stares at me as I walk by talking to myself. I see allot of tracks in the mud racoons and the smaller prints must be the foxes, not sure about cat prints.  

Today I crossed under the bridge on Elk Grove Florin and kept walking. It was a new explore. It parallels Elk Grove Florin for about a block and makes a left turn. 

As I was climbing the steep levee bank I came down on something and slightly turned my left knee. Its fine shortly after. 

I also have been experiencing this phenom, your walking along and one foot (normally my right) steps on a stick or branch. This sometimes raises it up, the  trailing left foot then hooks under it and depending on the motion can trip you or fling and trip you at the same time. At first I thought what a rare occurrence but it happens too often to be happenstance.

Hike has me on EG creek and then I plunge into the bush and walk straight down the creek with dry beds fuming up on both sides. Its pretty soft and you just have to watch out for concrete blocks and stones and rabbit poop or leftover sheep shit. It widens out near the office buildings and then another deeper channel until you get to rock hard concrete by the bridge. Its like they were building the bridge and poured out a bunch of concrete and left it that way.  Past the bridge and by Leatherbys it again widens. There is bit of another bush wack as you approach the Laguna bridge. I has three chutes left right and middle. The chute closet to home depot is occupied by a homeless dude. It was easier to remember for me, hear home depot don't go. 

Thru that and you can follow the creek bed again and bail before it ends in a drying up mini lake. The trail then takes a winding left on a pretty nice dirt trail. 

From there by Zender park it opens up to a big area and walking on left side keeps you in shade. Finally you reach some berms and swales (depressions). There is also allot of tall grass before you get close to the third bridge under Lewis Stein. 

Here I like to take a piss and my body has quickly become used to this. After that its out on a really green soft creek bed which winds around a bit, there are some animal bones that the coyote must have eaten. 

There was a resident coyote that would follow me and bark at me. The fox did something similar, except no barking. 

Wierd thing on the walk today

 My left and right knee have been bothering me not allot but just enough. I finally researched and did some exercises to strengthen the hamstring quad and other muscles. The idea that the knee has no muscles and you must strengthen the muscles around the knee to prevent strain on the knee. 

I walk 5 miles a day to train for the PCT. Unfortunately most of its on concrete or asphalt. I try to walk on grass (but its wet) or dirt when possible. 

I am pretty automatic about the walk, especially during the week. There is no exploring as I have to get back by a certain amount of time to start working. 

As I was coming up to this work-site I was looking at the gutter. Normally there is crap like sand bags or plastic wrap. The bags are used to prevent debris from flowing into the storm drains and the plastic crap gets blown around (its been windy lately).  As I start walking by this amalgam of crap, a head rears up. 

I take like 10 steps in the opposite direction, I didn't know what it was. 

It was a dog, one of those Yorkie type dogs, foofie, but this one gave me a wierd look its lower teeth were evident. It wasn't like it was snarling at me, the dogs lower mouth just drooped open. 

It looked sick. 

I thought, if I find someone with car to stop, maybe they will take it somewhere. I also thought on my return, I will give it some water. 

When I returned it was gone. 

7.11.21 update - Chinese running lady (I don't know her name) I had warned her about the dog and she said thanks. The next day she told me she went up to the dog and talked to it. It got up and started following her. She lead it to the dog park enclosure and shut the door around it and then called animal control. They came and picked it up. 

Farmland disappearing in Elk Grove CA

 I started talking this walk about 2 years ago. I don't really remember when it started I just do it. 

Its about a 5 mile round trip that takes me from suburbia to open fields of hay and tractors. 

On this walk I have seen coyotes, turkeys, rabbits, snakes, brand new cabinets and make a few friends along the way. 

I noticed that rabbits never look when they cross the road and routinely find them dead on the road. Some skunks stand right in the middle of the road or in the middle of  a field. 

Once when they dug a ditch across the field about ten snakes perished on the road. For some reason I felt it my duty to pick them up and move them off of the road. 

On these walks when the haze is not bad, or on a clear day (rare) you can see the snow on the Sierra's. Normally the haze is less to the west and Mount Diablo and the coastal range are usually in sight. 

 I was taking my daily walk talking to myself as I always do. It turned into an 11 mile walk and I called it the Thesis Walk 2012.  I guess its a thesis of walking and talking to myself 

The thought was about being in a situation and determining if you remain or leave. 

I will describe my situation (two neighbors and son).  

We lived between two assholes. One was a prissy HomeDepot worker who knew everything about home improvement and well you didn't. He liked to get together with the other asshole. This other asshole got mad that our dog barked. Instead of talking to us (she was barky but had a bark color) he threatened me when I was with my infant son standing at the window of my house. He just had an off vibe about him and I grew to hate everything about him, I even hated his name.  Then Prissy asshole moves out and rents his house to some white trash people who single handedly kept the camel brand alive. Add endless ghetto basket ball games trash on the ground and several calls to the police.  

We could have put the house up for sale and moved or gutted it out. Or would you call it grinding it out? At what point do you value your time here on earth more than putting up with these shitholes? Eventually the white trash had to move when the house was sold and we got some great neighbors. Finally asshole #1's wife's father died and they moved into his house and sold, again great new neighbor. 

Second story 

My son hated going to high school (of course that is my impression, I am sure there are things he liked) for me everyday was a guess on whether he would go or not. He was in demanding classes and normally got good grades, until he didn't.  I posted to Reddit and people responded. Save your health and sanity, have him take the exit exam, which he did after his sophomore year. 

Then eventually imbued with the responsibility of  self and after one or two missteps he enrolled in college and is progressing. 

As I walked and looked at Mount Diablo and the coastal range, I started to ponder, do I value my time?

Of course selling a house because the two neighbors are horrible is a slightly bigger ask than graduating/getting out of high school but I am never going to get those years back of anger and coming home from a day at work to an unenjoyable environment. 

I question why I chose to accept this at all?  I realized that I view myself, my personality as a grinder. I learn by repetition and I feel like the titanic. Very subtle changes to the rudder result in slow changes in trajectory. But then again that is just the story I tell myself about myself. 

Mount Diablo, but you can't see it. You can see the Blackberry brambles!

January 21 2017

It has been a pretty rainy few weeks add a stressful week of work  an evening stroll around Elk Grove Creek, which is pretty full found us at I Love Teriyaki for a evening bite. We decided to share a Tempura Plate and  two cups of Miso Soup.

The place was not busy. It must have taken at least 20 minutes if not more to call my name out so I could pick up our food, which was OK and then later the miso soup.

Let me repeat, the place was not busy at all. The Tempura was OK the portions were fair, the chicken kind of burnt. But the miso soup was horrible. Tasted like warm water with some tofu and seaweed in the bottom. Bad sign, messing up something so easy.

So you have to wait forever for them to slap together your plate (Rice already cooked, as is the chicken, salad and other green salad as well). The only thing they had to make was six pieces of Tempura.

Then the just call your name setting your food down next to all the people coming in to order. Too close in my opinion.

Then the food was mediocre at best.

Seattle Trip 12/21/2016

I am writing the blog to document our trip, uncover places where we could get better and places where we could save money.

While traveling I also noticed improvements that businesses could make to improve service.

For example we stayed at the Motif Hotel in Seattle.

 www.motifseattle.com/


A nice hotel, centrally located. Not much to complain about, except for one thing I thought they could improve on. Here is the scenario, we left Sacramento at 2:40 on our flight to Seattle, we got there around 4:00 pm and then rode the Metro Link to downtown. Trudging thru the rain to the Motif we entered the hotel greeted by some hot apple cider. Here is where they can improve. There is an area where we had to wait in line to check in. One check in person was engaged in chit-chat with a guest, the other was assisting someone. While this might not seem like a big deal, there was other hotel staff popping their heads in and out. Now maybe they were staff that takes your luggage to your room or do other things. I however when tired and hungry don't want to wait.

So here is my idea for a solution. Get tablets and allow for any staff to walk up to you while you sit on the couch and check you in. So you wait on your customers instead of the customer waiting on you.

We flew on Wednesday from Sacramento Metro Air Port after being dropped off by our son at the airport, one checked bag cost $25.00. I really like Sacramento Metro Aircraft its clean not busy and easy to navigate.

For first time or new travelers it took us a little time to figure out where to go. Normally I was just dropping people off or picking them up so you don't know about going up the escalaotrs and then thru security and on to the trams that take you to the gates where the planes dock.

Waiting for the plane we grabbed some food from Jacks Urban Eats, I have been Turkey deficient since Thanksgiving and I wanted more. Unfortunately the Sandwich was dry with no pickles cranberry sauce or gravy.

The flight was pretty full and since I was loaded down with a duffle bag and a backpack when they asked for people to check any bag due to limited overhead storage, I jumped at the chance, wishing I did not have to check a bag for $25.00 (both ways).

The flight to Seattle was only 1 hour and maybe 20 minutes and worth every penny. If you love flying and like to look out of the window, definitely book a window seat. I do and have never been disappointed.

Arriving at SEATAC was different matter again not totally familiar with an airport now we realize that if you have checked bags you need to get out of the gate (and security) and normally go down the stairs to grab your bags. As with any travel be prepared for slightly different things to happen. We found the area where the carousel was but the handlers had grouped the bags on the floor together. We simply asked one of the handlers and they pointed it out to us.

Then we had to find out where the light rail station was, for awhile it seemed like the signs kept on pointing forward, eventually it pointed up to the escalators. If your rushing or tired or uptight you might miss this, just slow down and relax.

Just keep on following the signs, thru the parking garage on and on until you hit the paystation. There was a small line but we were able to pay and then move on to the platform. The light rail was clean and sparsely occupied. Our stop was about 6 to 8 stops away. Hunger was gnawing at me. We got off a the Westlake station

Got turned around looking for the hotel and had to push thru some people protesting for black lives matter and respect Muslims. Good for you but I am hungry and tired so stop blocking the g*d d*m sidewalk. Its funny how all these people protesting were older white people.

See above for the check-in at the Motif.

Hungry and a bit tired we ignored the suggestions of hotel staff and walked down the stairs to the Elephant and Castle restaurant. Bad decision! 

We walked in and saw many tables available, but the lady told us to wait (for what ?) Then finally we were seated and it took awhile (10 minutes) to have our drink order taken another wait for the waitress to come back and tell me that the beer I ordered was out another 5 to 10 minutes to bring that beer to me. All the while the waitress seemed to be doing nothing and people who had a different wait staff already eating food. Now the food was just as bad, tasteless wild caught salmon, cold lumpy potatos and gresy flat onions. Why I did not send this food back was my fault. As travelers I sometimes think we would eat slop rather than man up and complain.

I did complain as they gave us a survey to complete and I have yet to hear from them.

The next day we went to the Speciality shop (really just a big Petes for people from California) and ordered cripsy bacon sandwiches and some caffeine, Delicious low cost  and great service,

From there we walked the wrong way up a hill towards a mall. Back down the hill we made it to the touristy part of the market to see the fish toss. Which brought a smile to my face!

We wandered far and wide stopping to buy some soap and a hat the market had some cool flute playing somewhere.